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Most everyone wants to fall in love, especially codependents.

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To us, love is perhaps the highest ideal, and relationships give our lives meaning and purpose. They enliven and motivate us. A partner provides a companion when we have difficulty initiating action on our own. Being free telephone chat lines in forestdale massachusetts also validates our sense of self-esteem, overcomes shame-based doubts about our lovability, and soothes our fears of loneliness.

But too often a beautiful romance turns sour. What was a wonderful dream becomes a painful nightmare. Perfect or Mr. Right becomes Ms. The unconscious is a mighty force. Even when the relationship turns out to be toxic, once attached, ending the relationship is as hard as falling in love was easy! Our brains are wired to fall in love — to free online naughty chat rooms the bliss and euphoria of romance, to enjoy pleasure, and to bond and procreate.

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Feel-good neurochemicals flood the brain at each stage of lustattraction, and attachment. Particularly dopamine provides natural high and ecstatic feelings that can be as free online sex chat 76444 tx as cocaine. Psychology plays a role, too. Experiences, both positive and negative, impact our choices and make someone appear more or less attractive.

For example, we might find commonality attractive, but avoid someone who cheated on an ex if that has happened to us before.

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More mysterious, we can free chat hanston attracted to someone who shares emotional and behavioral patterns with a member pahala hi sex chat our family even before they become apparent. Healthy idealization is normal and helps us fall in love. Love also brings out parts of our personality that were dormant. We might feel manlier frim chat more womanly, more empathic, generous, hopeful, and more willing to take risks and try new things.

In this way, we feel more alive, because we have access to other aspects of our ordinary or constricted personality.

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The neurochemicals of romance can lift our depressed mood and fuel codependency and love addiction when we seek a relationship in order to put an end to our loneliness or emptiness. When we lack a support system or are unhappy, we might rush into a relationship and become attached quickly before really knowing our partner.

After the initial ideal stage, usually starting after six months, we enter the ordeal tennessee sexy chat without registration as we learn more things about our partner that displease us.

1. the ‘you’ll find love when you’re not looking’ approach may be wrong.

We discover habits and flaws we dislike and attitudes we believe to be ignorant or distasteful. In fact, some of chat sex in cheektowaga same traits that attracted us now annoy us. We liked that our mate was warm seeking romantic person friendly, but now feel ignored at social gatherings. We were enchanted by her carefree spirit, but are bg chat appalled by her unrealistic spending.

Additionally, as the high wears off, we start to revert to our ordinary personality, and so has our partner. Two things happen next that can damage relationships. This puts up walls to intimacy, the secret sauce that keeps love alive. In its place we withdraw and breed resentments.

Our feelings can come out sideways with sarcasm or passive-aggression. As romance and idealization fade, the second fatal mistake is to complain and try to turn our partner into who we first idealized him or her to be. We feel cheated and disillusioned that our partner is now behaving differently than in the beginning of the relationship.

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He or she, too, is reverting to their ordinary personality that may include less effort made to win looking for fontana dating chat and accommodate your needs. Our partner will feel controlled and resentful and may pull away. In some cases, we might discover serious problems — that our partner has an addiction, mental illness, or his abusive or dishonest.

These are issues that require a serious commitment to change and often years of therapy to overcome. Many codependents, who get quickly involved for the reasons stated above, will sacrifice their own happiness and continue in a relationship for years trying to change, help, and fix their partner.

The dysfunctional family dynamics of their childhood often get repeated in their marriages and relationships. Change requires healing our past and overcoming shame and low self-esteem to feel entitled to love and appreciation. We might not want to seeking romantic person a relationship that involves addiction or abuse or has other serious problems. See Codependency for Dummies for a list of both minimal and optimal ingredients for successful relationships.

Lacking major obstacles, getting past the ordeal to the real deal requires rochester chat line, courage, acceptance, and assertiveness skills. It necessitates the ability to honestly speak up about our needs and wants, to share feelings, compromise, and resolve conflict.

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Rather than try to change our partner, our efforts are better placed on learning to accept him or her. This is the struggle for intimacy, and requires a commitment by both partners to get through chat line numbers indianapolis ordeal stage with mutual respect and a desire to make the relationship work. We will attract someone who treats us the way we expect to be treated.

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